Comments on Mama Mia No Sabia: Expect to Wait

Came over from SeattleMomBlogs. I've had a few mi...

2007-11-05T12:49:00.000-08:00

Came over from SeattleMomBlogs. I've had a few miscarriages...I wish I could offer you some words that would make it all better. But all I have is that I'm sorry.

Best of luck.

Very well written... brings back memories of my ow...

2007-10-26T13:23:00.000-07:00

Very well written... brings back memories of my own miscarriage. I was 17 weeks. Yeah.

And then.. when it's over.. there's this weird feeling ~ I knew I was supposed to feel something ~ but I felt.. void instead. Like it was happening to someone else.

But I guess that's what mourning feels like.

Lending you my heart until yours is better XOXOKal...

2007-10-25T17:50:00.000-07:00

Lending you my heart until yours is better XOXO

Kala

Still in my thoughts...

2007-10-25T13:23:00.000-07:00

Still in my thoughts...

Oh, Mamacita. Right when you thought it was over....

2007-10-25T09:32:00.000-07:00

Oh, Mamacita. Right when you thought it was over. This seems cruel to have to wait even longer.

At some point you should give that list to your doctor and give her a little feedback about what patients need to know. It is just ridiculous that the doctor didn't prepare you for this.

Many big hugs to you, my friend. Call if you need anything.

i don't envy you this wait. It must seem like an e...

2007-10-25T08:29:00.000-07:00

i don't envy you this wait. It must seem like an eternity. you've brought me to tears more than once in this blogsphere and my heart goes out to you.

the waiting in the worst. the worst. i want that...

2007-10-25T05:58:00.000-07:00

the waiting in the worst. the worst.

i want that list printed and put in every midwife and doctor's office in the country. i remember leaving (twice) after a loss empty handed and afraid with my heart torn to shreds with nothing but that crumpled kleenex you spoke of.

take care. i wish i could bring you a warm tray of enchiladas and gooey rice pudding and lots of hugs.

anytime you want to "talk" just email. . .

Poor mamacita, it is indeed a hard time...

2007-10-25T03:32:00.000-07:00

Poor mamacita,
it is indeed a hard time and unfortunately all in the body's time. I was told my baby had stopped growing at seven weeks right when I was eleven weeks and assuming I was almost in the 'safe' time. It was a Sunday afternoon in the emergency room. The nurse booked me a D & C for Tuesday as I prepared to go to work the next day. My partner and I went home, cried, had some wine, held each other tightly...in the morning the pain and clotting was unbearable. Even though we raced back to hospital we were alone in a room when it all happened. Expect tears, sympathy from well meaning friends, sometimes anger at the unfairness of it all and eventually hope. Love to you x

I am so sorry you are struggling through this. I ...

2007-10-25T02:36:00.000-07:00

I am so sorry you are struggling through this. I pray you find peace soon!

oh dear friend, i wish that there was something th...

2007-10-24T21:19:00.000-07:00

oh dear friend, i wish that there was something that would free you from this incredibly difficult time. i am so sad. to sit and wait is clearly an awful alternative to something equally awful.

thinking of you and sending you much much love and a listening ear at any hour.

It would be a good book to write, my friend. I ha...

2007-10-24T19:32:00.000-07:00

It would be a good book to write, my friend. I have friends who have had the same loss, only to sit and wait and to have no idea how painful it would be both mentally and physically.

Love to you.

Sending you hugs. All the hugs that can fit along ...

2007-10-24T19:05:00.000-07:00

Sending you hugs. All the hugs that can fit along these airwaves.